I will be quoting Harry Chapin here, and I will forewarn you that I will probably quote Harry Chapin more than once in this blog. His music and lyrics probably have influenced my views a lot, so here we go. Here is an excerpt from a monologue about something his grandfather told him:
“he said, ‘Harry, there are two kinds of tired: there’s good-tired, and there’s bad-tired.’ He said, ‘Ironically enough, bad-tired can be a day that you won. But you won other people’s battles, you lived other people’s days, other people’s agendas, other people’s dreams and when it was all over there was very little “you” in there, and when you hit the hay at night, somehow you toss and turn–you don’t settle easy.’ He said, ‘Good-tired, ironically enough, can be a day that you lost. But you don’t have to tell yourself, ’cause you knew you fought your battles, you chased your dreams, you lived your days, and when you hit the hay at night, you settle easy–you sleep the sleep of the just, and you can say “take me away.”
So, what kind of “tired” are you? My favorite part of this is when he says “there was very little ‘you’ in there.” That is how I see a lot of people. They go to work day in and day out, strictly for a paycheck and not for any sort of enjoyment. Yes, this economy is hard and yes, you can’t be choosers when it comes to being gainfully employed. But it doesn’t mean you have to give up and I have seen a lot of people give up. Or seem to.
Is this you? Why? What has happened that makes you lose all hope of becoming your dream? Bring it back. Examine the glass and find out what it is that makes you happy.
My cousin (favorite?) recently started baking classes. She has wanted to become a baker for a long time and she is finally taking the steps to do so. It makes me REALLY happy. Whether or not she follows my blog, she has in essence, “Examined her glass” to find a way to start making her dream come true. It may not happen this year, it may not happen next year, but she has taken a strong step forward and I am proud of her.
As for being good tired or bad tired….well, that is for you to figure out. If you are bad tired, stop! Start making the change you want to see in yourself today so that tonight, you can be good tired!
Take me away!